I. Hate. Drama.
Seriously, I can be dramatic sometimes when I tell stories and things like that, but I HATE girl drama. Hate it. But this weekend, my suite mates experienced some. And by some, I mean so much that the whole story is completely ridiculous and even my RA laughed at it.
So I went out with two of my suitemates and a girl thats friends with them last night. I'm going to rename them for privacy purposes. My suitemates will be Amber and Kat and the other girl will be Stacy. Amber and Stacy went to high school together. Amber introduced Stacy to my other two suite mates and the three of them became really close and have been since the beginning of the school year. Stacy goes out with us anytime we go anywhere and goes out with them more than I do, even though she doesn't even live in our dorm. So last night we were at a party and Amber wanted to leave before everyone else was. She said something to Stacy and Kat about leaving soon and how we were getting back, and Stacy mouthed off to her and said something rude. So Amber walked away because she was mad. Stacy tried to apologize a few minutes later, but Amber told her to get out of her face and that she didn't want to talk about it. So Stacy (who has emotional issues, especially when intoxicated) ran outside and started crying about it to Kat. Apparently there was more behind her sadness than we knew about, but thats beside the point. So Kat tried to get Amber and I to go talk to Stacy about it and work things out. I kept saying that I really didn't want to, that I hate drama and I didn't want to get in the middle of it. But they pulled me out of my chair and we walked out by the street outside the house to talk. I stayed a good distance back, so I didn't hear what they were saying, but all of a sudden Stacy and Amber started arguing. Stacy turned around to walk away, Amber said something to her, and Stacy whipped back around, ran straight at Amber, balled up her fist and clocked her in the right ear.
Yes. That really happened. None of us knew what to do exactly. It was kind of surreal because we were all thinking, "...did she really just do that?" It was so completely unnecessary and stupid.
But that's only the beginning.
Amber started freaking out and threatening to call the cops, at which point everyone broke out of there stupified trances and started freaking out and trying to calm her down. Kat ran after Stacy to walk with her back to the dorm and Amber and I got a ride from someone. When we got back, Amber called the police because she thought she might have had a concussion and she didn't want Stacy anywhere near our dorm. So the police came and talked to us for a while, got Stacy's information, got Amber's information, and basically said since we were off campus there was nothing they could do about pressing charges, that Amber would have to talk to the Wilmington Police Department for that, but that Stacy would be getting in a lot of trouble nonetheless. The officer also hinted to Amber that it would be a good idea to go to the hospital and get her head checked out, even though the paramedic from the EMS said she would probably be fine. So Amber rode off in an ambulance, I followed in Amber's car, the hospital said the exact same thing that the EMS guy said, and it was all a big waste of time.
Oh, side story. While we were sitting there waiting for the nurse to tell us we could leave, a guy a few curtain-rooms down took off all his clothes are started peeing on the floor. And all the nurses were laughing at him. It was really strange, but SO funny.
Anyway, when we were checking out of the hospital, a guy from Housing at UNCW came up to us and Amber had to tell the whole story over again to him. This morning, a police officer came to our room and gave Amber a drinking ticket. Stacy got one too. Stacy is also getting in a lot more trouble. I feel kind of bad for her, because she has a lot of issues, but none of those are an excuse to punch someone you're supposed to be friends with. PLUS, get this, she tried to turn the story around and say that when Amber put her hands up to stop Stacy from rushing at her, she was actually trying to choke Stacy and that's why Stacy hit her. This really ticked off Kat, and its been decided that Stacy will no longer be going out with us and that, if they ever become friends again, its going to take some time and it won't be the same. Kat said that it isn't the fact that Stacy punched Amber, its the fact that she's trying to lie about what happened.
So, things went down this weekend. And to top it off, because of all the drama I didn't get the guy's phone number that had been flirting with me the whole night. Which might be a big reason why I'm so upset about the situation. Mom said I should get revenge on them for that, because that's messed up. My mom. Always looking out for me.
The end!
